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My favourite between a GFE and a BDSM booking

Which one do you like the most?”. I have been asked this question several times, and not only by clients, but mostly by escort colleagues or curious civilian (non sex worker) friends.


I’ve worked as Nina Lira since 2019, and from day one, one thing was clear to me; I would offer not only “girlfriend experience” bookings; I wanted to be a pro-submissive as well.

What is funny to me is that clients that book me for a GFE experience are convinced GFE bookings are my favourite, and clients who book me for a BDSM experience are convinced BDSM bookings are my favourite.

By the way, what’s up with the sex industry and all the acronyms?


The way I see it, there’s no explanation needed. As an escort, I’m very transparent with my sexuality, and it’s no secret that I self describe as naturally submissive. It is absolutely dreamy for me put myself at the mercy of my partner, to be an instrument of pleasure, to stop thinking and just please. I get lost in my daydreams thinking about this and that is why I feel so happy to be a pro-submissive escort.

But also…. When I think about meeting a client for the first time, getting to know each other over a glass of Chablis at a nice restaurant, smiling and feeling the sexual tension, and end up the night in bed in sensual moments and pillow talk… Something happens in my heart. I ache for this kind of experiences and I feel extremely happy every time I get dinner or overnight date requests.

Overall, I was made to love; and in many different ways, and this is why I’m good at what I do; because I’m just being myself.

I love to get to know clients in whichever setting we end up in, and I thrive on longer dates because it is at those moments when we can explore each other better.

So, at least for now, I really do not have any “favourite” kind of booking. I love the bookings where we can just get to meet each other, and enjoy whatever kind of intimacy we feel comfortable with.

As of today, I have left France almost 11 months ago. Covid really messed up my life. Now, at home, I feel like I’m re-living my adolescence. I’m a horny teenager again! I think about sex every day.. I think about my lovers, about their problems, about the nights when we met… I often wonder if they think about me too.

I hope my lover knows I don’t have ‘a favourite’, I hope he knows I miss my jardin secret, and that he was a part of it, I hope he knows I’m counting the days until I’m Nina Lira again.

So whichever date idea you have in mind, don’t hesitate to tell me about it. I’m begging you, please tell me about it! Don’t let the fancy website intimidate you, I’m just a girl in the city that likes to dress in black and lives a double life. Just like Batman, but with sex.

And if you have any further questions regarding the dates I like, don’t forget to visit ninalira.com or send me a love letter (ninalira@protonmail.com).

My only requirement is for you to be yourself when we finally meet. I want to get to know you. I want to know what you like, what you dislike, what you dream of doing and what you never dared to explore…

“It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.”

You owe it to me to be yourself!

After all, I’m just being myself too.

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